FOCUS ON YOUR CELEBRATION : )
03 Jun 2009 Leave a Comment
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We need to focus our attention on Celebrating our own existence, rather than pausing our celebration often and giving unasked advice to others who according to us, are wasting their time in misery or intoxications (temporary death ). In this way we also become miserable. We must keep enjoying ourselves in Guru, God, Truth, Satsang, Meditation, healthy hobbies , healthy work, healthy food, healthy relationship etc. We need to be the change we want to see in the world. Just forcing your wisdom on someone will make you miserable instead of pulling out others out of their miseries. Help yourself first with the wisdom you are having. Then help others tactfully (with compassion)and never at the cost of your own loss of peace. Now with this wisdom, be happy now and forever.
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How about eating icecream for the dinner, or sometimes being very hungry and eating just bhaat-dal (rice and lentil soup : )http://www.serendipity.li/itd/chap02_bolpur.htm
- If you are engage in your own soul upliftment, then you would not find time for criticizing others.
- Everyone , even the worst person has atleast one good quality.
- Have compassion and appreciate (in your mind) the small good changes that you see in others.
— Brahmakumaris : )
If there is this truth, if there is God, it must be within us. . . . [I must be able to say,] “I have seen
That is the goal. Struggle for it! Have your own Bible. Have your own Christ. Otherwise you are not religious. Do not talk religion. Men talk and talk. “Some of them, steeped in darkness, in the pride of their hearts think that they have the light. And not only [that], they offer to take others upon their shoulders and both fall into the pit.” (Katha, I. ii. 5.)
—- Swami Vivekanada : )
If thou dost hold a position in which others look to thee for light, answer or battle for truth with love in thy heart, not for thine honour or for fear of bad name, but to uphold the glory and purity of truth. Let thine actions and words be not for the sake of victory, nor for shaming others, nor to feed thy vanity, but only for the truth. Love for truth, however, must always be tempered with the love of avoiding hurt to others. Defamation of others in the name of spreading truth, or for the sake of one’s own benefit, is a sign of ego and inner weakness, a desire to make oneself appear taller by cutting off the heads of others.
Fight not even for truth, if love is not in thy heart, hatred cannot be conquered by hatred, meanness cannot be conquered by meanness. If in the guise of defending “truth”, hatred or vengefulness, or an inflated ego precipitates in thy heart a desire to battle thy detractors, forsake the fight. First cultivate love. Love is thy strength and thy greatest ally. Its …….will heal the wounds inflicted by the hatred of thine enemies, and love is never defeated. Even death in the attempt to conquer hatred is love’s victory for the immortal soul.
………..The divine way is to judge thyself, not others. Unless thou doest thine own housecleaning, thou hast no right to tell others their houses are unclean.
……….with unfathomable love say unto thy brother, “My heart bursts for the suffering caused to thee by thine own wrong actions. Mend thy ways. I love to see thee well” True words may be hurtful and bitter , so coat them with the sugar of love and kindness that they may be more easily swallowed by the one stricken with the fever of evil.
But if thy views are not welcome, maintain silence. Mentally send to the wrongdoer constructive thoughts, love, and prayers—–without spoken words—for that is also beneficial and will help to awaken him.
He who is down needs not be trampled on. He needs thy lifting hands of love. Think of others’ woes as thine own and thou wouldst feel for all. Unkind criticism is a torturing enemy that delights in the downfall of others. Love is a saving friend that rejoices in others’s happiness and well-being : )
—– Paramhansa Yogananda : )
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/10/bura-jo-dekhan-main-chala/
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/gyan-aur-sadachaar/
http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/02/enjoy-simple-things-in-life/
http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Meditation/Advanced/life_is_purposeless.htm
http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/jkrishnamurti_ambition.htm
http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/I_dont_like_Myself.htm
http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Osho-on-Judging.htm
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