Remember to pause, don’t rush through life!

Sister Shivani, from the Brahmakumari practice, draws from her connect with God. She explains, “For me, spirituality is not a search for God, it’s when the relationship has begun. Spirituality is charging of the battery (soul), but for that I need to be connected to the Power House — God.”

As one evolves spiritually, it leads to an understanding that you already have within you what you seek from others — love, happiness, peace. Says Shivani, “You are then free to act and interact without any ‘agenda’ and to be yourself. You will be at peace with yourself because there is no longer any conflict between the many identities that you had previously created—gender/nationality/profession/possessions, etc. You will contain the world instead of it containing you.” Emotional literacy helps us realise that the cause of our feelings is not external events but the self.

How does one achieve a more spiritual self? Remember to pause, don’t rush through life! Experts recommend meditation and learning to make more intelligent choices, an ability to disengage from the world outside and your own thoughts for a deeper understanding of oneself, taking 10 minutes daily for self-introspection. It’s ultimately all about the self!

Source: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life/spirituality/self-help/Spirituality-is-me/articleshow/5299745.cms

FREQUENTLY UPDATED BLOG! ON LIFE, MARRIAGE, SEX, LOVE, FRIENDSHIP, WORK, FOOD, MONEY, PEACE, DEATH, HAPPINESS AND ENLIGHTENMENT (GOD: )

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Life is a bridge; walk over it but build no house upon it.

“Marriage is not a word, but a sentence… a life sentence…” http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=42523074403

Enjoy @ God : )

EIGHT CLUES TO HAPPINESS: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/08/25/eight-clues-to-happiness/

DONT WORRY,BE HAPPY!http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/06/18/dont-worrybe-happy/

Life, a laughing matter: D http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/life-a-laughing-matter/

WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO ENJOY?http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/05/why-is-it-so-difficult-to-enjoy/

CAUTION: The blog below is for the SO CALLED 18 YRS AND ABOVE (An average person  stops behaving innocently as well as intelligently after the age of 8 yrs :)

YOUNG DREAMS CRUSHED TO DEATH : http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/category/young-dreams-crushed/

See the orkut community NO LONGER IT EXIST and check in the members one  ManojC Kriplani , a  boy who died at a young age  :http://www.orkut.co.in/Main?rl=pcb&uid=12599229147161543312#Community?cmm=27849525

HUMANS ALWAYS BUSY IN IDLE GOSSIP:http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/11/03/humans-always-busy-in-idle-gossip/ 

MARRIAGE IS EVER-NEW-WORRIES
W.I.F.E IS WORRIES INVITED FOR EVER
HUSBAND IS HaSna BANDh  

Click here for bachelor list :http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/bachelor-list/

 Marriage is a severe bondage. One’s situation is like that of a buffalo trapped in a cage. It is best not to get trapped in such a situation. And those who are already trapped should try to get out. The rest should escape after tasting its fruits.There are endless difficulties with a woman in this worldly life. Difficulties begin from the time they are joined together in matrimony. How can two minds think alike? How long can they think alike? Suppose, if they both liked the kadhi soup, but what about the vegetables? Here the two minds would not think alike and hence they achieve nothing.(http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/21/man-shoots-wife-over-job/) There is never harmony where there are differences in opinions.(http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/23/its-really-about-the-money-honey/ )If we count from endless number of births, men have always married women and vice versa, but still the fascination in sex remains. When will this ever end? Would it not be better if you become single so that all these difficulties would end?

ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE FALSE : http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/04/all-relationships-are-false/

A very happy and intelligent boy earning good money , suddenly develops a VIRUS inside his head that NO LIFE WITHOUT A WIFE and once he marries  he realises that WIFE IS A KNIFE WHO CUTS YOUR LIFE or make it miserable, at last the boy concludes NO LIFE WITH A WIFE : ( 

Parents know only one thing , they want you to get married so that they can take revenge upon you. You created a lot of troubles in your parent’s life. Now, the parents wants to take revenge with you by getting you married and forcing you to bear a child or two. And when you bear your own child your parent’s revenge is taken, now that you have to suffer at your children’s hand : (  (http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/23/douglas-son-gets-5-years-in-drug-case/) (http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/a-petition-moved-by-a-83-year-old-father-against-his-only-son-and-daughter-in-law/ )

When you desire for a wife , you dont just get a wife but also two new parents (mother in law and father in law), new brothers and sisters in laws, in laws uncle and aunts etc. Mind it you wanted a wife but you have to tolerate her family as well. So more than the benefits , you suffer the loss : (

In this uncertain world , its difficult to take care of your own health, now with marriage and children therefore you would have to take care of their health as well : (  (http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/23/15-yr-old-paralysed-after-botched-nrs-surgeries/)

Your so called family (wife and children ) would just add additional responsibilites on your shoulders and you just cant run away from them, you would loose your freedom and become miserable : (

So long as only wife is there its ok because she may co-operate, but children, they are the real troubles because they know only one thing , that is to demand from you all they want. And, in fulfilling their demands you would start loosing your peace and happiness : (

You may choose your wife (still its a big gamble) but mind it, the biggest gamble is the children. You may think your children as yours but you actually dont know who they are. They may be your enemies from past life who may have come for taking revenge on you. And, the biggest irony is you would give and do for them everything believing them as your own : (  (http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/metro-suicide-bid-foiled/)

Never marry on people’s advice, because the same people who would advise to get married, once you get married and start having troubles, then the same people would come to give lectures like, troubles are a part of married life ; if you dont have stamina to  fulfill your responsibilities then why did you marry in the first place. WHO TOLD YOU TO MARRY? And when you would confront them that you only advised me to get married, then people would say “if i will tell you to jump in the well, then would you jump?” : (

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/naomi-a-struggling-mom/

 Sacked man & wife poison four children: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/17/sacked-man-wife-poison-four-children/

One most known but ignored reason behind marriage is fulfilling our desire for sex. Now people feel marriage is the license to have unlimited sex and therfore they just ruin their bodies, mind and soul for sex. Earlier people use to marry just to test their power of  control( with understanding ) for sex, not to indulge in sex. Our semen is the essence of our body, when wasted in sex , we become weak both physically and mentally not to talk of spiritually. If we practice (atleast have the intention to practice) celebacy, our preserved semen will not fall but rise and would therefore help us discover a balanced physically, mentally and  above all spiritually happy ourself : ) Now people just feel its alright to indulge in sexual activities and therefore  they become miserable : ( Read more on Celebacy (Brahmacharya:) —Attained with understanding : http://www.dadabhagwan.org/Books/celibacy.pdf

["No, thanks, ma'am i never work on sundays"---- a happy beggar : )(Read all the subtitles of this clip, its talking about simple pleasures,they are wonderful : )]

Women — they’re hell to live with, and hell to live Without. What to do?……”THE OTHER IS HELL”:  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/love-life_drama.htm

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/satsang-sadhguru/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/man-held-for-killing-wife/

DIFFERENT NATURE OF MEN AND WOMEN: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/05/different-nature-of-man-and-woman/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/indias-first-transgender-tv-host-now-a-woman/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/first-look/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/gayles-gal/

THE PILL: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/12/50-years-onthe-pill-still-means-liberty-for-women/

Raped minor gets HC abortion nod: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/12/raped-minor-gets-hc-abortion-nod/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/haliwells-fiance-spotted-with-another-woman/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/on-the-temple-trail/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/saif-seeks-spa-session/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/julia-roberts-tops-most-beautiful-list/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/12/chura-liya/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/no-change-in-law-needed-to-make-acid-attack-a-heinous-offence/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/mandela-played-cupid/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/11/18/nri-woman-murdered-on-honeymoon-in-s-africa/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/rizwan-case-deja-vu-in-honeymoon-couple-arrest/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/mob-lynches-18-year-old/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/kangaroo-court/

Girl pushed off train by lover,dies: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/girl-pushed-off-train-by-lover-dies/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/11/18/their-last-fight-was-over-ranbir/

HER WILD SIDE : http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/26/her-wild-side/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/actress-pamela-anderson-finds-us-president-barack-obama-incredibly-sexy-and-wants-to-dance-with-him/

Women prefer chocolate to sex,wine!http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/women-prefer-chocolate-to-sexwine/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/n-zealand-man-at-strip-club-leaves-baby-in-car/

I FIND IT ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO SURRENDER TO THE MALE EGO: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/i-find-it-almost-impossible-to-surrender-to-the-male-ego/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/12/girl-raped-at-knifepoint-in-pune/

GANGBANGED: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/category/japanese-gang-raped-in-bodh-gaya/

3 get life for raping tourist from Japan: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/3-get-life-for-raping-tourist-from-japan/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/07/25-year-old-mba-offered-liftgangraped-in-pune/

Sandra Bullock files for divorce,ready to adopt baby: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/30/sandra-bullock-files-for-divorceready-to-adopt-baby/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/16/love-doves-adultery-and-divorce-rampant-in-birds/

ALONENESS IS BEAUTIFUL:)  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Aloneness_is_Beauitful.htm

WOMEN WHO ARE RAPED ‘WANTED IT’: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/women-who-are-raped-wanted-it%e2%80%99/

NAUGHTY GIRL: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/bad-girl-hogs-prime-time/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/fair-point/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/share-the-shame-is-the-latest-craze/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/woman-in-skinny-jeans-cant-be-raped/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/shiney-new-start/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/christensen-poses-nude/

MASTER(Sri Ramkrishna Paramhansa): “Mad! That’s the word. One must become mad with love in order to realize God. But that love is not possible if the mind dwells on ‘woman and gold’. Sex-life with a woman! What happiness is there in that? The realization of God gives ten million times more happiness. Gauri used to say that when a man attains ecstatic love of God all the pores of the skin, even the roots of the hair, become like so many sexual organs, and in every pore the aspirant enjoys the happiness of communion with the Atman. “One must call on God with a longing heart. One must learn from the guru how God can be realized. Only if the guru himself has attained Perfect Knowledge can he show the way.”

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/16/play-itagain-sam/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/boxer-shorts/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/16/jake-wants-to-be-fat-happy/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/21/pcs-a-crowd-puller/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/21/johns-back-home/

Sex, gift from God : )http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/sex-gift-from-god/

HAASAN TO PLAY OSHO : )http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/28/haasan-to-play-osho/

SEX AND DEATH: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/sex-and-death/

EVEN IF YOU DO COMMIT ADULTERY, YOU ARE A PURE SOUL : http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/ramana_on_restraining_desires.htm

CAN’T SEX BE TRANSCENDED WITHOUT GOING INTO IT?
 http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/05/can%e2%80%99t-sex-be-transcended-without-going-into-it/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/director-gurinder-chadha-on-her-fascination-with-indian-weddings/

SC: Live-in relationship & consensual sexual relation between majors legal:  http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/25/sc-live-in-relationship-between-majors-legal/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/pre-marital-sex-no-offence-sc/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/live-ins-cool-now/

Child pornography is strictly illegal worldwide: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/armyman-in-child-porn-net/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/pune-duo-held-for-cyber-data-piracy/

Showing porn to minors is a criminal offense.And forcibly (strictly against the wishes) showing porn to even majors is an offense. But without force just suggesting (stoping if the concerned person asks to stop) porn to majors is not an offesne: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/fliers-show-porn-clips-to-woman/

French first lady Carla Bruni reportedly kept the British Queen waiting, while she had sex with hubby President Nicolas Sarkozy: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/12/bruni-kept-queen-waiting/

SEX IS STUPID: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sexistupid.htm

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/sex-for-babies-may-soon-be-history/

SEX MAKES U A FOOL: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sex_fool.htm

PORN INDUSTRY IS A $56 BILLION ( Rs. 2,80,000 crore)INDUSTRY WORLDWIDE: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/11/23/porn-industry-is-a-56-billion-dollar-industry-worldwide/

 PORNOGRAPHY is a by product of religious repression: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_pornography.htm

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/do-you-wear-a-d-cup-networking-gets-nasty/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/why-blame-media-for-ipl-mess/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/a-seer-in-a-compromising-position-and-a-video-a-perfect-recipe-to-tarnish-his-image/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/28/we-are-waiting-to-take-flight/

I think my boyfriend is looking at porn on his PC :http://passionandspirituality.wordpress.com/2010/04/09/my-boyfriend-is-looking-at-porn-on-his-pc/

Viewing porn at home not a crime: HC http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/11/27/viewing-porn-at-home-not-a-crime-hc/

NORMAL OR ABNORMAL BEHAVIOUR? : http://passionandspirituality.wordpress.com/2010/08/03/normal-or-abnormal-behaviour/

Govt can’t ban porn websites for obscenity:  http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/09/govt-cant-ban-porn-websites-for-obscenity/

HC: No dress code for school teachers: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/hc-no-dress-code-for-schoolteachers/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/09/i-gave-the-censor-board-a-list-of-200-movies/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/semi-nude-ban-ftv-says-its-creative-expression/

Porn star saves man from prison term: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/27/porn-star-saves-man-from-prison-term/

UK porn filmmaker to run for parliament : http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/17/uk-porn-filmmaker-to-run-for-parliament/

KHAJURAHO’S EROTIC SCULPTURES:)http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/24/khajurahos-erotic-sculptures/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/07/aguilera-reveals-her-erotic-bath-rituals/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/07/hudson-dating-3/

Sunaina Roshan talks about her battle with cancer, a bad marriagea search for peace and her brother Hrithik, who has seen her through it all : )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2010/01/28/sunaina-roshan-talks-about/

Shahrukh Khan: “I really prayed hard, but she died all the same. That’s the irony of prayers.” http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/category/shahrukh-khan-on-spirituality/

Emraan Hashmi says: “We should never complain about what we do not have, but instead cherish whatever we have. There is a story about a man who cribbed that he did not have shoes till he met a man without any legs….”

For the first time in his mature years, Karan Johar is a depressed man. http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/category/bitter-reality-check-for-karan-johar/

HAPPILY MARRIED ?http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/happily-married/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/16/depressed-doc-kills-self/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/16/man-hangs-himself-after-losing-ipl-bet/

Mulla Nasruddin’s Art Of Living:  http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/category/mulla-nasruddin%e2%80%99s-art-of-living/

ART OF LIVING IN PICTURES: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2010/03/02/art-of-living-in-pictures/

MEDITATE (go in! ) or U WILL MISS THE TRAIN! : )The same energy that was becoming desires and thoughts and memories and imagination — the same energy is absorbed in the new depth. The same energy is used by this deepening inwardness. And you will know what it means when I say “Go in.”
Don’t start looking in the dictionaries or in the ENCYCLOPAEDIA BRITANNICA. It is not a question of words! Words are simple to understand; when I say “Go in,” that’s exactly what I mean — go in! Don’t start asking about the words — listen to the hidden message; otherwise you will miss the train. What do I mean by ‘missing the train’?
Let me tell you a story:
A naive farmer’s wife arrived at Paddington Station to catch a train, and having some time to spare before the train arrived, she thought she would check out her weight on a nearby weighing machine.
She got on, put in a penny and out popped a card which read, “You weigh one hundred and fifty pounds and in five minutes from now you will fart.” Red with embarrassment and feeling a little outraged, she got off the scale and hurried away. Five minutes later, to her total amazement, she farted loud and long.
Very embarrassed, but intrigued, she made her way back to the machine to see what it had to say this time. In went the penny — out came the card: “You still weigh one hundred and fifty pounds and in five minutes from now you will be raped.” She jumped off the machine in disgust and walked firmly away.
A newspaper salesman, who was having a particularly slack morning, saw this country bumpkin and thought to have some fun, so before she knew what was happening, she was pulled behind the counter and raped. Emerging a few minutes later in a terrible state, with her hat on one side, the heel of her shoe broken, and in a total state of shock, she staggered back to the machine and blindly put in a penny. Out came the card: “You still weigh one hundred and fifty pounds, and with all this farting and fucking, you’ve missed the train!”

Tiger Woods linked to 10 women :Woods, who turns 34 on December 30, was first linked to Uchitel, who has denied the affair despite a TMZ report that a friend of Woods arranged her flight and room in the same hotel as Woods during a recent Australian tournament. Cocktail waitress Jamiee Grubbs, 24, played a Woods voicemail to support her claims of a 31-month relationship with Woods. Also on the Fox list were Sampson, 36; Kalika Moquin, 27, a Las Vegas club manager; model Jamie Jungers, 26; Mindy Lawton, a 33-year-old waitress from Orlando; and three unidentified women, two from British reports and another waitress from Orlando. http://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/news-by-industry/et-cetera/Tiger-Woods-linked-to-10-women-as-new-crash-details-emerge/articleshow/5312556.cms

Tiger Woods’ wife ‘seeks half his fortune in divorce’ :LONDON: Tiger Woods’ wife Elin Nordegren could get half the 337.5-million-pound fortune the sportstar has earned as she prepares to meet divorce lawyers, it has emerged.Meanwhile, Woods, 33, has confessed infidelity after he was reported of having romanced as many as 12 women.http://economictimes.indiatimes.com/ET-Cetera/Tiger-Woods-wife-seeks-half-his-fortune-in-divorce/articleshow/5342597.cms

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/12/woods-romped-with-neighbours-daughter/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/08/media-is-behaving-like-moral-police/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/08/how-to-make-the-rich-open-their-wallets/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/rape-slur-on-ktaka-minister/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/rape-bid-on-teen-in-sskm-hospital/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/bollywoods-clause-wars/

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/grab_girls_and_sexually_enjoy.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Jokes/Osho_jokes_on_repressed_sexuality.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Jokes/Osho_jokes_on_fake_spirituality.htm

DEAD LIST :http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/06/dead-list/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/lightning-strikes-kill-5/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/twins-inseparable-in-life-and-death/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/there-are-no-ultimate-answers/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/12/death-and-the-afterlife/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/wheel-of-existence/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/young-dreams-crushed/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/chinese-man-kills-3-family-members/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/12/woman-strangled-in-bhowanipore/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/ram-simar-ram-simar/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/01/nacho-gao-dhyan-mein-dubo/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/a-caller-id-option-for-your-thoughts/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/road-accidents-kill-1-every-5-minutes/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/07/domestic-killed-in-gariahat-burglary/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/elderly-couple-robbed-in-salt-lake/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/12/polish-president-lech-kaczynski-die-in-plane-crash/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/12/poor-little-rich-boy/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/rinchenpongthe-place-where-heaven-descends/

COUNSELING BY MASTERS: )  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Shiva-Shakti.htm

LASTLY, I WOULD SAY “EVERONE SHOULD MARRY AFTER ALL HAPPINESS IS NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE” : ) HA HA HA….

STRANGE BUT TRUE, PEOPLE STILL MARRY FOR HAPPINESS.

MORE STRANGE BUT STILL TRUE, PEOPLE ALSO TAKE DIVORCE FOR HAPPINESS.

Olga wants to stay single:

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/23/olga-wants-to-stay-single/

HA HA HA : ) Enjoy………..

CELEBRATE YOUR EXISTENCE : )

Haso aur hasao, mat phaso mat phasao

(Laugh and make others laugh leading a bachelor’s life ; dont get caged or get others caged in married life )

WISH U A HAPPY UNMARRIED  LIFE ! : )

CLICK HERE FOR AN INTERESTING EXCERPT ON MARRIAGE FROM OSHO’S BIOGRAPHY :

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/an-interesting-excerpt-on-marriage-from-oshos-biography/

Click here for a sweet article on bachelor life :http://theeternalwanderer.wordpress.com/2006/07/30/the-bachelor-life/

Also check :

HUMANS ALWAYS BUSY IN IDLE GOSSIP:http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/11/03/humans-always-busy-in-idle-gossip/

RESULT OF MARRIAGE: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/the-result-of-marriage/

GIRLS, BEWARE OF MARRIAGE! RISING NUMBER OF DOWRY DEATHS IN INDIA:    http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/01/rising-number-of-dowry-deaths-in-india/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/17/woman-found-deadhusband-in-laws-held/

Dowry death case: Husband gets life term: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/dowry-death-case-husband-gets-life-term/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/12/man-loses-infidelity-case-vs-wife-in-hc/

Divya Bharati wedded to Death:
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/23/divya-bharati-wedded-to-death/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/mittal-vs-mittal/

Woman kills husband,surrenders: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/woman-kills-husband/

COUPLE COMMITTED SUICIDE: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/16/couple-committed-suicide/

BIHAR MLA KILLS SELF, WIFE AND DAUGHTER: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/03/bihar-mla-kills-self-wife-and-daughter/

WIFE COMMITTED SUICIDE :http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/15/husband-arrested-for-suicide-committed-by-wife/

HUSBAND COMMITTED SUICIDE: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/15/husband-committed-suicide/

I FEEL, BOTH GIRLS AND BOYS SHOULD EARN THEIR BASIC NECESSITIES AND LIVE ALONE ( WITH GOD : )

PARENTS OF GIRLS SHOULD INVEST THE AMOUNT (WHATEVER THEY SPEND IN MARRIAGE AND DOWRY) IN LIFE TERM IMMEDIATE MONTHLY INCOME SCHEME FOR THEIR DAUGHTERS,  SO THAT THEIR DAUGHTER WILL IMMEDIATELY START GETTING THEIR MONTHLY ALLOWANCE EVEN WITHOUT THE COMPULSION OF WORKING ANYWHERE : )

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/job-stress-raises-heart-disease-risk-in-women/

WE ARE BORN ALONE, WE LIVE ALONE (WE MAY FOOL OURSELVES OF LIVING WITH OTHERS) AND WE DIE ALONE!

LIVING ALONE DOES NOT MEAN PHYSICALLY RUNNING AWAY FROM OTHERS (BUT YOU MUST RUN IF REQUIRED : )

MIRABAI: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/meerabais-poem/

86-yr-old kept in a room for over 20 days:KARWAR: Old age and ill-health became a curse for him. This 86-year-old man was confined in a dark bare room in a lodge here for more than 20 days.Nobody wanted to go near him because he emanated bad odour.Vasant Godbole was kept in the ground floor without bath and medical treatment allegedly by the lodge owner.But on Sunday, tipped off by a call, some social activists led by Madhav Naik went to the lodge and got him released with the help of the police.The heart-rending tale of Godbole unfolds thus. Godbole who hails from Kolhapur in Maharashtra worked in the lodge as manager for 40 years. He said his wife died 10 years ago and he was living alone. He said the lodge owner asked him to find a job because he became old. He went to Belgaum a few days back but returned to Karwar as nobody gave him work as he was too old. When he went to the lodge again, the lodge owner kept him confined in a room. When the police and the media persons visited the lodge, there was foul smellcoming out of Godbole’s room. There was filth everywhere and it looked like as if the room hadn’t been cleaned for many days. The room was bare but for a chair.Lodge owner Devidas Vernekar agreed that Godbole worked for him for 40 years. He claimed that the staff had admitted Godbole to a hospital a few days back when he fell ill. But Godbole escaped from the hospital and returned to the lodge. Godbole has a daughter in Dombivili in Mumbai but she is not ready to take him with her, claimed Vernekar. The staff were not ready to take care of him as he emanated bad odour, according to Vernekar.http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/86-yr-old-kept-in-a-room-for-over-20-days/articleshow/5408317.cms

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/naxalite-leader-kanu-sanyal-hangs-himself/

ALSO CHECK :

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/30/answers-from-swami-anubhavananda/

Also check :

http://soulcurrymagazine.com/sc/is-marriage-a-curse-or-a-boon.html

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/category/among-those-who-sought-instruction-from-the-blessed-one-buddha-was-suprabha/

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/RadhaswamiDham/message/134

http://soulcurrymagazine.com/sc/sex-brahmacharya-understand-it.html

MONEY: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/money/

We have Got the human birth to… http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/07/20/we-have-got-the-human-birth/

Link to my main blog site: http://capitalmarketandspirituality.blogspot.com/

HAPPY AS YOU ARE: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/07/09/happy-as-you-are/

Tell this to your intellect: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/07/02/tell-this-to-your-intellect/

Condition of the people : http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/22/conditionf-the-people/

GOD PROVIDES FOOD FOR ALL: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/09/food-freedom/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/12/you-can-call-me-a-dal-roti-person/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/13/unlimited-food-for-9-aud/

Saints cries for others: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/09/saints-cries-for-others/

The world has cataract: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/09/the-world-has-cataract/

He is a doctor, not a human being anymore: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/09/he-is-a-doctor-not-human-being-anymore/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/peerless-doctors-asked-for-money/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/1k-absentee-docs-shown-the-door-in-up/

Rich are poor and poor are rich: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/rich-poor-and-poor-rich/

We are already wealthy: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/we-are-already-wealthy/

Death is certain and getting closer: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/become-an-ascetic-sadhu/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/13/a-weekend-trip-took-a-tragic-turn-when-a-39-year-old-man-was-killed-in-a-horrific-accident/

No problem: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/no-problem/

A saint’s last handwritten message: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/04/a-saints-last-handwritten-message/

We may die today: ): (  http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/03/we-may-die-today/

We are in foreign land: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/25/we-are-in-foreign-land/

The real king:http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/25/the-real-king/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/25/beautiful-quote/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/25/small-things-leads-to-misery/

Comedian God: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/25/comedian-god/

Your own movie: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/20/your-own-movie/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/18/live-happily-and-leave-happily/

RELAX:  kUCH TO LOG KAHENGE….. : ) http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/18/relax/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/aniston-tries-to-stay-happy/

Also check:

LOVE VS LUST :http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/love-vs-lust/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/gender-is-illusion/

Haripada, the clerk :http://403025n1.blogspot.com/2008/01/flute-music.html

NO REASON :)http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/be-happy-for-no-reason/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/life-like-that-of-mr-x/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/category/in-your-old-age/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/there-was-a-disciple-of-guru-goraknath-he-was-very-good-looking-at-the-same-time-he-was-very-good-yogi/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/mata-shabri-was-a-very-beautiful-queen-in-her-previous-birth-but-because-of-her-royal-background-she-was-not-allowed-to-spend-time-with-saints-and-sadhus/

CONTENTMENT: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/what-is-contentment-shri-krishna-visited-sant-ravidas/

Lastly Remember:

If you are against, you will become rigid, hard, and the harder you become the more dead you will be.
                                                                             ——OSHO : )

Devotion
 
Prayer in which your very soul is burning with desire for God is the only effectual prayer. You have prayed like that at some time, no doubt; perhaps when you wanted something very badly, or urgently needed money — then you burned up the ether with your desire. That is how you must feel for God. Talk to Him day and night; you will see that He will respond.
— Sri Sri Paramahansa Yogananda, “Man’s Eternal Quest”

In conclusion , therefore, i am not against marriage, just that it is, not my cup of tea. Atleast i dont need it today in the light of the wisdom. And, my advice for all is to be aware of the facts in the light of the wisdom first,  before u take the big step. I feel, 99% would not take the big step if he or she is aware of the wisdom (Remember, IGNORANCE OF LAW IS NOT AN EXCUSE).And, one who has already taken the step must understand that “Many marriages would be better if the husband and wife clearly understood that they are on the same side” 

Also read :

http://www.dadabhagwan.org/Books/harmony/index.htm

http://www.dadabhagwan.org/Books/harmony-in-marriage.pdf

EQUAL MARRIAGE?: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/03/17/equal-marriage/

LISTEN TO ME, SEE YOUR PRICELESS MOMENTS ARE GETTING LOST….http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/11/14/listen-to-me-see-your-priceless-moments-are-getting-lost/

Devotion
 
You should not concentrate on the thought that you lack devotion, but should work to develop it. Why be upset because God has not shown Himself to you? Think of the long time you ignored Him. Meditate more; go deep….By changing your habits you will awaken in your heart the memory of His wondrous Being; and, knowing Him, there is no doubt that you will love Him.
— Sri Sri Paramahansa Yogananda, “Sayings of Paramahansa Yogananda”

A HAPPY MAN:)http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/category/if-a-happy-man-sees-that-five-days-of-working-is-enough/

TIME FOR SATSANG AND MEDITATION:)http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/people-say-they-dont-have-time-for-satsang-and-meditation/

Sri Sri Paramhansa Yogananda’s views on marriage:

Once, when i was very young, my family tried to persuade me to marry. I saw the prospective bride, and thought she had the most beautiful face i had ever seen. i heard God say, “Why don’t you marry?” But i said to Him, “Are you not more wonderful? I do not want that face. i want You who are behind that face!” Years later, I saw her beauty had faded with age, but my joy in God had increased a thousandfold.

Marriage is for those who do not feel inwardly the renunciant’s conviction that God alone is sufficient. But those who are married are not barred from finding God —- the purpose of the divine friendship of marriage is to help each other toward that end. In fact, no marriage can be completely succesful without God’d love. It takes unconditional love to make the marital relationship harmonious. What hades husbands and wives make of their lives without that love, and without trust in each other.
                      Couples in even the closest relationships are very secretive and keep things to themselves. In the beginning they share everything, but when they start to have differences and quarrels, they withdraw and put a wall around themselves. Where has their love gone? Two young people say they will die if they can not be together. But if suddenly one of them became old and gray, where would that love be? What is it that they love, the soul? No, it is the face.

The point is, your first goal must be to know God. When you have found Him, when your heart is in tune with him, then whatever He tells you to do is all right. But if you entangle yourself without first finding God, you have chosen the path of error.

You are alone on this earth and nobody will pay for your mistakes but yourself. So why should you follow the mistakes of others? You must live your life as you know you should live it. Don’t keep feeding your bad habits with fresh actions that strengthen them.

(Excerpt taken from the book “Divine Romance” by Paramhansa Yogananda)

Also check :

EXPERIENCES :http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/19/good-life-lesson-experiences/

 INEQUALITY:http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/22/good-life-lesson-inequality/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/trucking-wisdom/

YOUTH: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/mental-exercises-for-youth/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/peace/

A SIMPLE RULE: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/a-simple-rule/

I LOVE YOU: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/i-love-you/

NAVADHA BHAKTI: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/navadha-bhakti/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/05/22/friends/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/two-traveling-angels/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/krishnas-raas-leela/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/i-am-shiva/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/speech-by-bryan-dyson-ceo-of-coca-cola/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/trimantra-the-three-mantras-namo-arihantanum/

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/I_dont_like_Myself.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Osho-on-Judging.htm

HOW TO HANDLE  FEAR AND GUILT: )http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/guilt_fear.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Stop-Imitation.htm

HOW TO HANDLE INSULT: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/how-to-handle-insult/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/big-article-but-a-must-read-one/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/there-was-a-little-boy-visiting/

INDIA: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/my-india-spiritual-india/

THE PURPOSE OF LIFE: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/the-purpose-of-life/

RENUNCIATION :http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/master-you-are-wonderful-a-student-taking-his-leave-gazed-ardently-at/

THE FOUR FOOLISH CRAVINGS: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/the-four-cravings/

PROPER BALANCE IN LIFE: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/14/how-can-we-know-what-is-the-proper-balance-in-our-lives/

KALIYUGA: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/in-the-ramcharitmanasa-st-tulsidas-writes-that-in-kaliyuga-people-are-governed-by-wrong-ideas-and-attitudes/

CAPITAL MARKET: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/career-stocks-bonds-security-and-god/

BEGGAR :http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/it-is-said-that-when-buddha-goes-to-beg-he-would-appear-as-a-king/

MENTAL PEACE: )http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/do-ambition-and-achievement-help-to-attain-mental-peace/

Bernard Madoff Gets 150 Years in Jail for Epic Fraud: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/01/bernard-madoff-gets-150-years-in-jail-for-epic-fraud/

A GOOD MONK: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/01/good-story-a-good-monk/

VITAMIN FOR SOUL: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/25/unhappiness-is-the-vitamin-of-atma%e2%80%94the-soul/

WHAT DO YOU DO? :)http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/23/what-do-you-do/

RIGHT ACTIVITY: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/09/18/right-activity/

RESPECT IS NOT A NECESSITY: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/is-getting-respect-from-others-a-necessity-for-living/

TOILET : http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/29/you-are-born-in-a-family-of-fortunate-ones/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/diarrhoea-outbreak/

YOUR WONDERFUL EYES: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/24/how-wonderful-are-your-eyes/

RULES OF LAKSHMI JI: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/happy-diwaliwhat-are-the-rules-of-lakshmiji/

THIS IS YOUR LIFE:)http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/09/you-have-to-understand-that-this-is-your-life/

LIVE WITHOUT CONFLICT: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/08/life-without-conflict/

JUST FOUR NECESSITIES: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/07/a-person-who-has-all-the-four-necessities-of-life-and-yet-creates-conflict/

DONT FOLLOW THE WAYS OF THE WORLD: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2009/10/06/there-is-no-happiness-in-following-the-ways-of-the-world/

MISUSE OF TECHNOLOGY: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/category/misuse-of-technology/

MONEY VS SELF: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/category/money-vs-self/

http://wordsofsages.wordpress.com/

LUCKY OR UNLUCKY: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/12/01/lucky-or-unlucky/

FOCUS ON YOUR CELEBRATION : http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/focus-on-your-celebration/

SOLITUDE :http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/04/solitude/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/05/even-without-desiring-money-will-come/

SELFISH INTELLECT GIVES RISE TO INNER TURMOIL: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/19/selfish-intellect-gives-rise-to-inner-turmoil/

WHAT DO I OWE TO MY PARENTS? :)http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/15/parents-are-precious/

CELEBRATE LIFE: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/good-life-lesson-celebrate-life/

SEX AND SPIRITUALITY: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/sex-and-spirituality-seeking-the-divine/

THE SURYANAMASKAR: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/the-suryanamaskar/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/good-life-lesson-winning/

http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/good-life-lesson-people-and-things/

YOU:)http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/good-life-lesson-you/

THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN MONEY: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/there-is-more-to-life-than-money/

OBSTACLES: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/good-life-lesson-obstacles/

QUIZ: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/good-life-lesson-quiz/

GOD: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/12/10/be-happy-its-one-way-of-being-wise/

HAPPY PEOPLE LET THE GARBAGE GO BY:)http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/09/29/happy-people-let-the-garbage-go-by/

GET RID OF DESIRES WITH WISDOM: http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/08/27/get-rid-of-desires-with-wisdom/

LIVING WISELY:)http://iwillgetmad.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/living-wisely/

BE IN BLISS:)http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/07/devotees-of-lord-may-be-laughed-at-but/

EYES OF SAINTS: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/07/eyes-of-saints/

CHEAP AND HEALTHY FOOD: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/07/cheap-but-healthy-and-tasty-food/

PERFECT LIFE: http://spiritualityiscool.wordpress.com/2008/04/23/a-perfect-life/

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/12/07/remember-to-pause-don%e2%80%99t-rush-through-life/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/when-maharaj-janak-got-ashamed/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/gyan-aur-sadachaar/

GOOD ARTICLES IN NEWSPAPER :)http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/good-articles/

RISE EARLY: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/28/rise-early/

EXERCISE: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/28/physical-exercise/

Elvis died of CONSTIPATION:  http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/elvis-died-of-constipation/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/short-cuts/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/tips-for-overcoming-binge-eating/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/get-hyper-if-i-dont-workout/

EVEN A NIGHT OF BRAHMACHARYA IS BLISSFUL : )http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/10/29/brahmacharya-celebacy/

LAUGHTER: http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/05/29/one-life-to-laugh/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/10/aag-lagi-akash-mein-jhar-jhar-pare-angar/

FAULT IS OF THE SUFFERER :)http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/category/fault-is-of-the-sufferer/

GET GOD IN YOUNG AGE : http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/07/get-god-in-young-age/

CRITICISM: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/10/bura-jo-dekhan-main-chala/

SANTMAT: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/category/%e0%a4%b8%e0%a4%82%e0%a4%a4%e0%a4%ae%e0%a4%a4/

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sexistupid.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sexual_suppression_and_freedom_from_sex.htm

EVEN IF YOU DO COMMIT ADULTERY, YOU ARE A PURE SOUL : http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/ramana_on_restraining_desires.htm

MARRIAGE & SEX: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/jkrishnamurti_on_marriage_sex.htm

SUICIDE: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_committing_suicide.htm

ENJOY SIMPLE THINGS : http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/06/02/enjoy-simple-things-in-life/

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Meditation/Advanced/life_is_purposeless.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Afraid_of_being_Old.htm

THE GIFT OF LIFE: )http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/07/02/accept-the-gift-of-your-life/

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/i_am_so_terribly_ugly.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Married_Man_HellFire.htm

In his tribute to Michael Jackson, music critic Robert Hilburn writes, how Michael once confessed to him, “Even at home, I’m lonely. I sit in my room and cry. It is so hard to make friends and there are some things you can’t talk to your parents. I sometimes walk around the neighbourhood at night, just hoping to find someone to talk to. But I just end up coming home.” This loneliness is haunting, ultimately life-threatening.  http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/01/the-lonely-walk/

ALONENESS IS BEAUTIFUL:)  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Aloneness_is_Beauitful.htm

THE HAPPIEST MAN: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/14/happiest-man/

AMBITION : http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/jkrishnamurti_ambition.htm

B.A, BSc, BCA, BBA, B Tec, MBA,MCA kar k kya karna hai. Akhir 1din sabko marna hai. 4 din khushi se jee le mamu. Qki agle janam me phir nursery se hi shuru karna hai :)http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/category/b-a-bsc-bca-bba-b-tec-mba-mca-kar-k-kya-karna-hai/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/16/indian-student-abused-indian-origin-woman-dies-in-chicago-fire/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/medical-student-jumps-to-death/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/ap-student-killed-in-us-car-accident/

Osho’s Personal experience : 

When I was a student in the university in my final master’s course, one girl was very much interested in me. She was a beautiful girl, but my interest was not in women at that time. I was crazy in search of God! After the examinations, when she was leaving the university…. She had waited — I knew it — she had waited and waited for me to approach her. That is the usual way, that the man approaches the woman; it is graceful for the woman not to approach the man.

Strange idea… I don’t understand. Whoever approaches, it is graceful. If fact, whoever initiates is courageous. When we were leaving the university she said, “Now there is no chance.” She took me aside and said, “For two years continuously I have been waiting. Can’t we be together for our whole lives? I love you.”

I said, “If you love me, then please leave me alone. I also love you, that’s why I am leaving you alone — because I know what has been happening in the name of love.

People are becoming imprisoned, chained; they lose all their joy, life becomes a drag. So this is my parting advice to you,” I said, “Never try to cling to a person for your whole life.” If two persons are willingly together today, it is more than enough. If tomorrow again they feel like being together, good. If they don’t, it is their personal affair; nobody has to interfere.

FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/men_women_to_be_Friends.htm

Excerpt from Sant Sadhguru Santsevi ji Maharaj’s Discourse :

There was a Muslim gentleman. His name was Razzab Khaan. He had set off to marry. On the way to his would-be-bride’s home lay the ashram or cottage of a saint, Daado Dayaal jee. While he was on his way to the bride’s place, it just struck him why not have a glimpse of the saint and seek his blessings before proceeding for the auspicious ceremony so that the married life would be full of harmony, peace & pleasure. When he entered the cottage, he found Daadu Dayaal jee sitting in meditation. So he sat there waiting for his meditation to be over. The baaraat i.e. the marriage party which had been waiting outside was getting anxious over the delay. However, Razzab jee was waiting, calm & composed. Finally when the saint’s meditation was over and he got up, Razzab jee paid his due respects. Seeing him in bridegroom’s appearance, Daadu Dayaal jee uttered this couplet:

“Razzab te gajjab kiyaa, sir par baandhaa mour,

Aaye the hari bhajan ko, chale narak kee or”(Razzab, why did you do this to yourself? You are wearing the bridegroom’s crown over your head? Hey! You had come to this world for meditation & worship, and what is this? – you have set your feet on the way to hell!)

 See the magic of sanskaras? Saint Daadoo Dayaal said only this much, but it had a very grave impact on Razzab jee. He immediately took off the bridegroom’s headgear and dress, went outside and handed them over to his brother, and asked him to go and marry the girl lest his family members get upset. And he himself? He stayed back there only at the service of the Guru, Daado Dayaal jee. Subsequently, he himself turned out to be a great sage. This is what is sanskara. You see, if you try to rub a matchstick which is damp, it will not burn, break though it may, however hard you might try. But if you have, on the other hand, a dry matchstick, it instantly catches fire, even on rubbing it once only. Likewise, if you try to counsel a mind without right sanskaras, go on sermonizing as much as you wish; it would not have any significant impact. But what about a mind with right sanskaras? Razzab jee instantly bid adieu to the sensual pleasures and made his mind clean.

Sahajobaaee, the disciple of Charandaas jee Mahaaraaj, was another similar person. Her marriage ceremony had just been over. Preparations were afoot to send her off to her in-laws’ house. Her hair was being done. She was being meticulously dressed & decorated. Her friends were busy doing her make-up. It was then only, shall we say by the quirk of the fate, that Charandaas jee appeared on the scene. Looking at Sahajobaaee whose make-up was in progress, he remarked,

“Chalanaa hai rahanaa naheen, chalanaa wishwaabees,Sahajo tanik suhaag par, kahaan guthaavai sheesh.”

(O Sahajo! This world is not your permanent abode. You have to undertake the voyage to the Master, the Supreme Lord of the universe. Would you trade your head for such a fickle & ephemeral conjugal bliss?)

No sooner than these words had been uttered, she put off all items of make-up & decoration, and gave up the very idea of going to her in-laws’ place. Instead, she got herself married to a life of meditation and grew up, in due course of time, into a great devotee and saint herself. Such miraculous transformations are the results of highly elevated sanskaras! We, too, can purify our sanskaras by making efforts in the right direction. Sanskaras do not befall you, or come to you, as it were, overnight or readymade. They are formed, processed and purified over a number of cycles of births; only such persons’ lives, who have made such endeavours in their past lives, get so easily and instantly metamorphosed with a slight swapping of the matchstick, in the form of attending satsang, or coming into the blissful company of saints.

http://www.thewayofsages.com/Cleanse%20Your%20Mind%20-%20English%20Translation.pdf
An excerpt from the book “Money” by Dadabhagwan :
Your worldly life is the result of no effort. It is totally an
outcome of karma of your past life, for which no effort is required.So enjoy it, but know how to enjoy it. Even the Lord concedes that when the basic necessities in life are missing, then it is naturalfor one to experience suffering. True suffering is, not having any air to breathe, or food to eat. These are the basic necessities in life – without which the body cannot survive. Nowadays people have so many different things available to them and yet they do not enjoy them. They are involved in something else. They do not enjoy what is in front of them. When a wealthy businessman sits to dine, instead of enjoying his meal, he is preoccupied with his business. The fool! He does not even know what he eats.Everything is like this.
http://www.dadabhagwan.org/Books/paisa-no-vyavahar.pdf
PER CAPITA INCOME AND BELOW POVERTY LINE DEFINATION: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/11/14/indian-per-capita-income-and-below-poverty-line-defination/
In jail, Haldiram boss to earn Rs 21 a day as gardener:  http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/06/in-jail-haldiram-boss-to-earn-rs-21-a-day-as-gardener/
Fat enough Mallya junior to get Rs 1.5L/month: http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/fat-enough-mallya-junior-to-get-rs-1-5lmonth/
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/mci-chief-takes-rs-2cr-bribeheld/
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/malda-trader-gets-klo-extortion-call/
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/entrepreneurship-the-key/
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/11/27/rajas-assets-nearly-doubled-in-last-fiscal/
An excerpt from Sant Sadhguru Santsevi ji  maharaj’s satsang:
I am pleased to see one of my American disciples from the United States of America here with me. When he had come to see me the last time, I had asked him, “You have taken deekshaa (initiation) from me. How much time do you give to meditation?” He replied, “I have too much of work load with very less of free time available. Hence, I can’t devote much time to meditation.” To this I told him, “Will you take all the money you are earning along with you from this world? So, do that which can accompany you. Devote time in earning that wealth which you will be able to carry with you from this world.” On going back to America, he shed a lot of extra work. Now he does less of worldly work and guards his time for meditation. How fortunate or privileged is he! He fulfils his worldly obligations and, at the same time, practices meditation also. I thank him a lot. My blessings to him! He has elevated sanskar. You see, if you rub a dry matchstick against a matchbox, it catches fire immediately. On the other hand, if the matchstick is wethowever hard you try to rub it, it won’t burn, break though it may. Similarly, those whose sanskar are good imbibe exhortations in the very first instance. The same applies to my dear disciple from America.
http://www.thewayofsages.com/Know%20Thyself.pdf
THE DIRT :
http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/15/the-dirt/

I AM A BUSINESSMAN: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/BusinessMan_Meditator.htm

Kaaminee or female (for male; similarly male for female) is hundred times as intoxicating as kanak (gold or, the opium). One loses one’s saneness or balance of mind or rationality by mere sight of hers, why to talk of acquiring kanak (gold) or consuming kanak (opium).

http://www.thewayofsages.com/Jnaan%20yoga%20bhakti.pdf

Freedom from sex :

The man who is above sex, the man who has become free of sex avoids nothing. He has no antagonism toward sex. He will have compassion for all those who are still in the world of sex. And the man who has gone beyond sex will look at the beautiful woman, and the beautiful woman will not remind him of sex but of God — because ALL reminds him of God. A beautiful flower reminds him of God, a beautiful face reminds him of God. In fact, all reminds him of God.

DON’T SUPPRESS SEX, BETTER ENJOY IT ( it is not a SIN but a MISTAKE for TEMPORARY PLEASURE. And, everytime you have sex , it leaves you more unconscious; you feel cheated that your intelligence was hijacked by your hormones :) BEST IS TO GET  FREEDOM  FROM IT THROUGH SATSANG (foreplay with God ) AND MEDITATION (intercourse with God) AND THERBY ENJOYING THE HIGHEST,ETERNAL AND EVER-NEW- FUN ,WHICH IS GOD :) http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sexual_suppression_and_freedom_from_sex.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sex_fool.htm

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sexistupid.htm

All men are born free and equal, but some of them get married! : )

http://7thspace.com/entertainment/jokes/marriage_jokes/

LIFE IS A COSMIC JOKE: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Jokes/Life_is_a_Cosmic_Joke.htm

WHATS BEHIND THAT SMILE : http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/01/05/whats-behind-that-smile/

RAM KI DULHANIYA

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/17/i-am-wedded-to-god/

US actress Brittany Murphy dies at age 32 :US actress Brittany Murphy, of Sin City, 8 Mile and Just Married, died on Sunday at age 32 after going into cardiac arrest, according to media reports.Fox News broadcaster reported that the husband of the 32-year-old actress had called emergency services for help when she fell ill. 

KAMASUTRAS — hints for making love:)  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Man_has_become_Boring.htm

Introspection
 
You know when you are doing wrong. Your whole being tells you, and that feeling is God’s voice. If you do not listen to Him, then He is quiet; but when you spiritually waken again He will guide you. He sees your good and your evil thoughts and actions, but whatever you do, you are His child just the same : )

 —Sri Sri Paramahansa Yogananda, Yogoda Satsanga Lessons

I SEE YOU AS A BEING A BEAUTIFUL PERSON. I see you as of great worth, significance. If God has given birth to you, that is proof enough! — no other proof is needed — that you are fulfilling some immense need of the universe. Start loving yourself, because that is the only way to love others, that is the only way to love God. If you cannot love yourself, how can you love your creator? If you hate yourself, you will
hate your creator too — because finally HE is responsible. He has created an unworthy person like you. He has made you ugly. He has given you wrong, evil desires. He is the culprit! Condemning your own instincts, your own desires, yom own life, you are condemning, vicariously, God himself.
Accept yourself, otherwise you will become a hypocrite. Don’t repress — nothing is negative in you. Existence is utterly positive. Express… manifest your hiddenmost core. Sing your song, and don’t be worried what it is. Don’t expect anybody to applaud it –there is no need. Singing in itself should be the reward.
I would not like you to become a hypocrite. And who is a hypocrite? The person who says something, believes something, and lives just the contrary.
Father Flanagan is walking through the village when he is hailed by Mrs. O’Rourke. “Would ye be joining us, father?” she calls out. “It is a bit of a party we are having.” “I wish I could,” replies the good father, “but I have to go and say mass.” “What a pity,” says the woman, “a fine party it is, and we are playing some lovely games. We blindfolded the women, the men took off their trousers, and the women have been guessing who is who. And would you believe it, father, your name has been called out
five times already!”:)

Question – OSHO, Why do I hate Homosexuals: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_hate_homosexuals.htm

CAUTION: Osho on Homosexuality – It is their duty to declare that they are homosexuals:Two-thirds of humanity is going to die through AIDS:  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_homosexuality_perversion.htm

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/school-guard-gets-life-term-for-student-murder/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/05/04/catholic-code-against-child-abuse/

http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/04/23/chinese-gay-man-kills-5-in-sex-games/

SEX IS STUPID: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sexistupid.htm

SEX MAKES U A FOOL: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/sex_fool.htm

Witnessing the sex act: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Witnessing-Sex-act.htm

Transforming Lust with Awareness gives indescribable Bliss:)   http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_watching_sex.htm

YOU ARE BLESSED IF U DONT FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_sex_repression.htm

TIRED OF SEX:  http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2010/02/23/tired-of-sex/

What is Happiness? http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_sleepy_person.htm

Relationships:  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/living_partners.htm

Forget Relationships and learn how to Relate:  http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Relationship-counseling.htm

Osho on sex, marriage, repression, indulgence and love : http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/Sex-outside-of-Marriage.htm

Marriage is a hell, but sometimes people need it : (   http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_marriage.htm

http://evernewjoy.wordpress.com/2009/12/17/drop-the-idea-of-becoming/

When the heart is pure, everything is pure. Whats’s the use of good grammar without a good heart? When death strikes us, grammar doesnt save us. When limbs are week and …..hair becomes grey…..doddering, old & toothless too…..the decrepit moves with the help of a moving stick…..Man never gives up desires. Thats why…….

……….WORSHIP THE LORD!……..WORSHIP THE LORD!…….O FOOL, WORSHIP THE LORD! :)

Transforming Lust with Awareness gives indescribable Bliss:)   http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_watching_sex.htm

YOU ARE BLESSED IF U DONT FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX: http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Shiva-Shakti/osho_on_sex_repression.htm

” Mauj mein raho” JUST BE HAPPY:)http://casualblogs.wordpress.com/2009/12/24/live-today-leave-tomorrow/

Divine Love
 
The greatest romance is with the Infinite. You have no idea how beautiful life can be. When you suddenly find God everywhere, when He comes and talks to you and guides you, the romance of divine love has begun.

 —Sri Sri Paramahansa Yogananda, “Man’s Eternal Quest”

Happiness
 
In a time of misfortune I heard Thy voice, saying: “The sun of My protection shines equally on thy brightest and thy blackest hours. Have faith and smile! Sadness is an offense against the blissful nature of Spirit. Let My life-transforming light appear through the transparency of smiles. By being happy, My child, thou dost please Me.”
 —Sri Sri Paramahansa Yogananda, “Whispers from Eternity” 

Happiness
 
A strong determination to be happy will help you. Do not wait for circumstances to change, thinking falsely that in them lies the trouble.
Do not make unhappiness a chronic habit, thereby affecting yourself and your associates. It is blessedness for yourself and others if you are happy.
If you possess happiness you possess everything; to be happy is to be in tune with God. That power to be happy comes through meditation.
 —Sri Sri Paramahansa Yogananda, “The Law of Success”

Cry for God.

“Remember that finding God will mean the funeral of all sorrows.”
—Sri Sri Swami Sri Yukteswar Giri, in “Autobiography of a Yogi”

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